Decision Making for Neurospicy Women
A 3-Video Series to Help You Trust Your Choices Again
You're Not Indecisive. You're Just Using the Wrong Decision-Making System.
You know that paralyzing feeling when someone asks you to make a choice?
The mental spiral that goes:
What if I'm wrong?
What if I regret this?
What do they think I should do?
Maybe I should think about it more.
But what if I'm overthinking?
Am I being too sensitive? Too picky?
Maybe I should just...
And round and round you go.
Here's what nobody told you:
Your neurospicy brain makes decisions differently. And when you try to force yourself into neurotypical decision-making frameworks, you end up stuck, doubting, and deferring to everyone else.
But what if the problem isn't YOU - it's the METHOD?
What If You Could Make Decisions You Actually Trust?
Imagine walking into your next big choice with clarity instead of confusion
Imagine knowing - really knowing - what's right for you, even when others disagree
Imagine having a track record of good decisions you can point to when doubt whispers “you can't trust yourself”
This is possible. And it starts with understanding how YOUR unique brain makes trustworthy decisions.
Introducing:
Decision Making for Neurospicy Women
A 3-part video series that teaches you how to:
1.
Identify exactly where your decision-making doubt comes from
(spoiler: it's not because you're "bad at deciding")
2.
Access your body's sophisticated guidance system
in the moment of making any choice
3.
Create tangible evidence that you make good decisions
proof you can return to when doubt creeps in
This isn't about becoming more decisive by forcing yourself to choose faster or "stop overthinking."
This is about reclaiming your unique neurospicy way of knowing - and building unshakeable trust in your own judgment.
The Promise
By the End of This Series, You'll Have...
Crystal-clear awareness
of where you trust yourself to make decisions and where you don't - so you know exactly what needs attention
A writing practice
that helps you work through complex decisions on the page and creates a track record of your trustworthy choices
A real-time body-based tool
you can use in any decision-making moment - from "Should I go to this event?" to "Should I take this job?"
Physical evidence
that you CAN trust yourself - pages of proof that your way of making decisions actually works
Here’s what you’ll learn in Each Video:
The Origins of Self-Doubt
Why you second-guess every choice (and how to stop)
You’ll Discover
The early messages that taught you to doubt your judgment instead of trusting it
How neurospicy decision-making traits were mislabeled as "flaws" when they're actually superpowers
Exactly where you trust yourself versus where you defer to others (through the Inner Authority Inventory)
Why your "indecisiveness" is actually your brain processing complexity others miss
Exercise: Inner Authority Inventory
A comprehensive assessment that shows you precisely where your decision-making confidence is strong and where old conditioning still holds power. This awareness is gold.
Body Wisdom and Inner Knowing
How to tap into your most sophisticated guidance system
You’ll Discover
Why your neurospicy body picks up decision-making information others miss
What your physical sensations are actually telling you about your choices
How to distinguish between anxiety and intuition (they feel similar but signal different things)
The natural rhythms that affect when you can make clear decisions versus when you need to wait
Exercise: The Pause Practice
A 6-step process you can use in real-time when facing any decision. Learn to read your body's "yes," "no," and "not yet" signals so you can trust your gut instead of overriding it.
The Art of Self-Trust: Making Your Inner Wisdom Tangible
Creating undeniable proof that you make good decisions
You’ll Discover
How writing through decisions accesses clarity that thinking alone can't reach
Why you need a track record of trustworthy choices (and how to create one)
The exact process for working through complex decisions on the page
How to follow up on your decisions to build concrete evidence of your judgment
Exercise: Decision-Making Writing Practice
A 7-step journaling process that helps you work through actual decisions using both your Inner Authority awareness and your body wisdom - then track the outcomes to prove to yourself you're trustworthy.
This is for you if you're a Neurodivergent Woman who...
Constantly second-guesses your choices, even small ones
Asks everyone else's opinion before trusting your own
Feels paralyzed when facing decisions because you're afraid of being "wrong"
Has been called "indecisive," "overthinking," or "too sensitive" about choices
Overrides your gut feelings in favor of what seems "logical" or what others approve of
Makes decisions that look good on paper but feel wrong in your body
Wants to trust yourself but doesn't have evidence that you make good choices
Is tired of deferring to others for decisions you could make yourself
You're ADHD, autistic, highly sensitive, or somewhere on this beautiful spectrum. You process the world differently. And it's time your decision-making process honored that.
What Makes This Different from Other Decision-Making Advice?
Most decision-making frameworks are designed for neurotypical brains. They tell you to:
Make Pro/Con Lists
(which ignores your body's wisdom)
“Just Decide Already”
(which shames your need for processing time)
“Go with Your Gut”
(without teaching you HOW to distinguish gut wisdom from anxiety)
“Stop Overthinking”
(which dismisses your complex, nuanced thinking as a problem)
This series does the opposite.
We honor your neurospicy way of processing information. We teach you to ACCESS your body wisdom, not override it. We give you space for complexity. We help you build EVIDENCE of your trustworthiness instead of just telling you to “believe in yourself.”
And we use writing as a tool - because for many neurospicy folks, getting thoughts out of our heads and onto paper is where clarity lives.
About Your Guide
Hi, I'm Maggie Evans - Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC), Certified Art Therapist (ATR), and fellow neurospicy woman.
I received my ADHD diagnosis at 44, during perimenopause, after spending decades not understanding why decision-making felt so different (and harder) for me than it seemed for others.
I run Therapy for Bohemians, a virtual private practice in Washington state, where I specialize in working with neurodivergent women navigating midlife transitions. My practice integrates creativity, embodied approaches, and spirituality - because we're whole humans, not just brains that need to "think better."
I also facilitate The Writing Cocoon, a weekly online writing group for neurodivergent women, and create seasonal writing prompts that align with natural rhythms (because your decision-making clarity has seasons too).
I believe your neurospicy traits aren't bugs to fix - they're features to celebrate. And I'm here to help you trust yourself again.
Immediately
You'll get an email confirming your enrollment and access to all 3 videos and accompanying pdf resources. You can choose to move through the course in one sitting or spread it out over a few days. Either way, you'll receive one short email for the next three days reminding you to watch the next video in the series and complete the corresponding exercises. Each email will include a link to the course page on my website and the password. You will have access to this course for as long as it remains live and will be notified if the course retires.
Here’s What Happens After You Sign Up
Day 1 = Video 1
Complete the Inner Authority Inventory to see exactly where you trust yourself and where you don't
Day 2 = Video 2
Learn and practice The Pause Practice - use it on at least 3 decisions this week
Day 3 = Video 3
Start your Decision-Making Writing Practice with your next real choice
Within 2 Weeks
You'll have tangible evidence that you can make trustworthy decisions using your unique neurospicy way of knowing
What People Are Saying
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
Sarah, ADHD
“For the first time in my life, I understood why decision-making felt so hard - and it wasn't because I was broken. The Pause Practice has become my go-to tool for everything from daily choices to major life decisions.”
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
Mayah, autistic
“The Inner Authority Inventory showed me patterns I'd never seen. I trust myself in creative decisions but defer to everyone else about relationships and money. Just having that awareness changed everything.”
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
Jordan, HSP
“Writing through my decisions has been transformational. I can actually SEE my wisdom on the page, and when I look back at past entries, I have proof that I make good choices. That evidence is everything.”
Ready to Trust Your Decisions Again?
This 3-video series gives you the complete system:
Awareness of where doubt lives
A real-time tool for accessing body wisdom
A practice for building evidence of your trustworthiness
No more analysis paralysis. No more asking everyone else first. No more overriding your gut.
Just clarity, confidence, and choices you can trust.
$47
Get instant access to all 3 videos + downloadable worksheets
Frequently Asked Questions
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Each video is approximately 12-15 minutes.
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Absolutely not. If you recognize yourself in the neurospicy experience - the sensitivity, the intensity, the different way of processing - this series is for you. Self-identification is valid.
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Yes! This isn't traditional journaling. It's structured, prompt-based writing specifically designed for decision-making. Many people who "hate journaling" love this practice because it has a clear purpose and creates tangible results.
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Perfect! Start with small daily decisions: "Should I go to this social event?" "Should I say yes to this request?" Building trust with small choices makes the big ones easier.
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This series gives you foundational tools you can use immediately. If you want to go deeper - working on specific patterns, healing old wounds around decision-making, or developing long-term practices - individual therapy might be a great next step. (I offer that too!)
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Yes. The practices scale. The Pause Practice works for "Should I buy this?" and "Should I end this relationship?" The Decision-Making Writing Practice is especially powerful for complex, multi-layered choices.
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You'll have the tools to use on an ongoing basis. Many people continue with the writing practice and find that it becomes their primary decision-making tool. If you love the writing aspect, I offer The Writing Cocoon (weekly group) and seasonal prompts for continued support.
The Bottom Line
You're not bad at making decisions. You've just been using a decision-making system designed for different brains.
Your neurospicy brain has its own wisdom. Let's learn to access it.
Three videos. Three practices. One complete system for trusting your choices.
Start making decisions you can trust. Today.
P.S. The Inner Authority Inventory alone is worth the signup. Knowing exactly where you trust yourself and where you don't changes everything. Stop guessing. Start knowing. Get access now.